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At a very early age parents need to set children down for a very important discussion on things that will be foisted on them in schools.


Mother and father or single parent asks for time with their child:

Child... "Did you want me mommy?"
Mommy... " Yes honey. Do you know when mommy is very serious?"

Child... "Yes, you have a certain look on your face, like now."

Hugs are in order...tell them that you love them and that’s why this meeting is so important.

Go through the per usual sex talk:

Mommy... "You are a little girl honey, right?"

C... "Yup."

M... "Don’t you know from seeing your little brother that there are things about him that are different?"

OR

M... "Do you know that little girls and little boys are very different down there?" pointing at the private area.


USUALLY THE ANSWER WILL BE YES, WE DON"T ALWAYS KNOW WHY BUT, WE WILL TALK ABOUT THAT LATER.


C... "Yes, I know the difference."


M.... "Honey I want you to always feel safe in telling me anything, O.K.?"

C... "O.K."


M... "If anyone ever touches you here, (pointing at breasts and then vaginal area, then seat) or wants you to touch them please tell me, can you do that?"

C... "I can mommy, I wouldn’t like that."


M... "It is only alright after you are married. Like between daddy and I."

C... "I like it when you and daddy kiss and hug."


M... "There are people who even are the same as you, other girls and they do things to each other that are not right. If ever another girl touches you there please tell me."

C... "You mean that other girls touch each other there"?


M... "This is why we need to have these kinds of talks honey. You are growing up and will see and hear all sorts of things. I just want you to be ready should it ever happen to you."

M... "Can I ask you something?"

C... "Yes".


M... "Has anyone ever touched you in ways that felt wrong to you at the time it happened, or said something that didn’t seem nice or right?"

C... "No."


M... "I want you to know that that kind of thing is not ever your fault. Promise me you will trust me and tell me if ever they do?"

C... "I promise mommy, can I go out and play now?"

M... "You sure can, I love you. Can we do this again in a few days?"
C... "Sure Mommy, I love you too."


The next meeting....

Mommy... "I thought we could play a game as we talk this time. Maybe you can win some prezes."
Child... "Oh Goody, I like games."

M... "When a person is saying something that you do not like or it sounds bad to you I want you to hit this buzzer or bell as hard as you can, OK?"
C... "What if I don't understand"?

M..."Raise your hand."

M..."Here we go. I am a man and I say, Hi little girl what color panties do you have on today?"
Bell rings.
M... "Very good honey."

M... "Teacher tells the class that boys who want other boys to touch them or girls who want other girls to touch them are O.K."
Hand goes up...

M... "That is not true and is not O.K. Don't feel bad for getting it wrong it's a bit unclear to you. Now you know though right?"
C..."Right".

M..." A man touches you on your butt as you pass bye him on the street?"

clang, clang, clang.

M..." You got that one."

M..."There is a girl in the bathroom as you come in and she comes up to you and kisses you on the mouth".
Clang, clang, clang
M..."I think you are liking this game."
M..."The doctor has to check you over and when he finishes he pats your rear."
clang, clang. "I think".
M... "You are correct, even the doctor needs to know his limits."

M... "Lets stop for now but we will do this again. I owe you three goodies. You choose them out of the bag over here."
C..." that was fun Mom."

Dads should do this with boys if possible. Use your imagination as to games to play while doing this. Perhaps goodies are not a good prize but use your imagination there as well.


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A Prophetic Lens

Myths are one thing but truth as stated in the scriptures are something we need desperately to take seriously. For most who do believe in the biblical writings there is the power of discernment given by the Holy Spirit as one gift, for others without the gift we still have some power to discern.


Here is one great truth....

You, America may not appreciate what I am going to say to you, they are not all my words. They were proclaimed to Jerusalem and all of Israel many, many years ago. These are the words given by a prophet who had received them from Almighty God. They fit in our world today and especially in America, for we pledged our allegiance to God.


"I made you grow like a plant of the field. You grew up and developed and became the most beautiful of jewels. Your breasts were formed and your hair grew, you who were naked and bare". Our Nation began as this, we had nothing, but because of what God saw in us His love gave us life.


Only through God’s love and mercy did we survive many wars away from and at home.

The Prophet Ezekiel used the sexual union to symbolize God's establishment of covenant with Judah. As a Husband, God clothed you with an embroidered dress and put leather sandals on you. He dressed you in fine linen and covered you with costly garments.

As your Beloved I adorned you with jewelry: I put bracelets on your arms and a necklace around your neck,and I put a ring on your nose, earrings on your ears and a beautiful crown on your head.


So you were adorned with gold and silver; your clothes were of fine linen and costly fabric and embroidered cloth. Your food was fine flour, honey and olive oil. You became very beautiful and rose to be a queen.


"'But you trusted in your beauty and used your fame to become a prostitute. You lavished your favors on anyone who passed by and your beauty became his". America is selling out to it’s fleshly lusts.


"You took some of your garments to make gaudy high places, where you carried on your prostitution. Such things should not happen, nor should they ever occur. You also took the fine jewelry I gave you, the jewelry made of my gold and silver, and you made for yourself male idols and engaged in prostitution with them".


This is the Hollywood House of prostitution which draws so many in America today to watch and exalt filth, all bought with the finery that God permitted us to have.


Like Jerusalem America has forgotten God's grace and is trusting in her own attributes.

This led to immorality and false worship, we are no longer true to Him. We are exactly as Jerusalem was, they behaved worse than history's worst examples--Samaria and Sodom and so are we.


"You slaughtered my children and sacrificed them to the idols. Those idols are the product of our selfishness that takes one life in order that our own would have freedom to do as it wishes.

You engaged in prostitution with the Egyptians, your lustful neighbors, and provoked me to anger with your increasing promiscuity". Are we not doing the very same things?

 

America has sold herself to the homosexual in hopes that this will make her more popular with others when in truth, "no one runs after you for your favors". Why? We have become like all the rest and worse. The Great Satan some say.


"'Therefore, you prostitute, hear the word of the LORD!

This is what the Sovereign LORD says: Because you poured out your wealth and exposed your nakedness in your promiscuity with your lovers, and because of all your detestable idols, and because you gave them your children's blood, I am going to gather all your lovers, with whom you found pleasure, those you loved as well as those you hated. I will gather them against you from all around and will strip you in front of them, and they will see all your nakedness.


Then I will hand you over to your lovers, and they will tear down your mounds and destroy your lofty shrines. They will strip you of your clothes and take your fine jewelry and leave you naked and bare. They will bring a mob against you, who will stone you and hack you to pieces with their swords. They will burn down your houses and inflict punishment on you in the sight of many women. I will put a stop to your prostitution, and you will no longer pay your lovers".

Why had God seen fit to send this word to His chosen people? Because they had done that which seemed good in their own eyes.

 

Don’t scoff for God will only contend for a time and when that time arrives He will bring down His wrath even upon America for she has played the prostitute.

"'Everyone who quotes proverbs will quote this proverb about you: "Like mother, like daughter."

Those who are in power got there only one way. They are twisting truth and selling out to their father, the devil, so it is that the apple has not fallen far from the tree. Like Father like Daughter or Son.


Even Sodom looks righteous in comparison to us.

According to King Solomon there is "nothing new under the sun". America is just the continuation of sinful hearts of the human species. God is not surprised but is giving us enough rope to hang ourselves.

" the sacrifice of your sons in the fire - you continue to defile yourselves with all your idols to this day". Abortion has been found to be for the unborn as though being burned alive in fire!

In you are those who dishonor their fathers' bed; in you are those who violate women during their period, when they are ceremonially unclean. In you one man commits a detestable offense with his neighbor's wife, another shamefully defiles his daughter-in-law, and another violates his sister, his own father's daughter. In you men accept bribes to shed blood; you take usury and excessive interest and make unjust gain from your neighbors by extortion. And you have forgotten me, declares the Sovereign LORD.


God is not mocked and what we sow we shall reap. America no longer fears the Lord God. That word fear is meant as to hold in awe filled respect for that which we do not see. Our founding fathers knew all too well how we were led to light on the shores of this once great and Godly Nation. They paid Him tribute and honor. Today we have spat in His face and arrogantly dared Him to bring down His judgement. Do you not know America? Judgement has already come. God has lifted His hands from us, we no longer can say we are a Christian nation. I personally thank God for all of you out here who are part of the body of Christ. My heart is that this is not just in name only.


"You will suffer the penalty for your lewdness and bear the consequences of your sins of idolatry. Then you will know that I am the Sovereign LORD."

 

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