At a very early age parents need to set children down for a very important discussion on things that will be foisted on them in schools.

Mother and father or single parent asks for time with their child:

Child... "Did you want me mommy?"
Mommy... " Yes honey. Do you know when mommy is very serious?"

Child... "Yes, you have a certain look on your face, like now."

Go through the per usual sex talk:

Mommy... "You are a little girl honey, right?"

C... "Yup."

M... "Don’t you know from seeing your little brother that there are things about him that are different?"

M... "Do you know that little girls and little boys are very different down there?" pointing at the private area.

C... "Yes, I know the difference."

M.... "Honey I want you to always feel safe in telling me anything, O.K.?"

C... "O.K."

M... "If anyone ever touches you here, (pointing at breasts and then vaginal area, then seat) or wants you to touch them please tell me, can you do that?"

C... "I can mommy, I wouldn’t like that."

M... "It is only alright after you are married. Like between daddy and I."

C... "I like it when you and daddy kiss and hug."

M... "There are people who even are the same as you, other girls and they do things to each other that are not right. If ever another girl touches you there please tell me."

C... "You mean that other girls touch each other there"?

M... "This is why we need to have these kinds of talks honey. You are growing up and will see and hear all sorts of things. I just want you to be ready should it ever happen to you."

M... "Can I ask you something?"

C... "Yes".

M... "Has anyone ever touched you in ways that felt wrong to you at the time it happened, or said something that didn’t seem nice or right?"

C... "No."

M... "I want you to know that that kind of thing is not ever your fault. Promise me you will trust me and tell me if ever they do?"

C... "I promise mommy, can I go out and play now?"

M... "You sure can, I love you. Can we do this again in a few days?"
C... "Sure Mommy, I love you too."


The next meeting....

Mommy... "I thought we could play a game as we talk this time. Maybe you can win some prezes."
Child... "Oh Goody, I like games."

M... "When a person is saying something that you do not like or it sounds bad to you I want you to hit this buzzer or bell as hard as you can, OK?"
C... "What if I don't understand"?

M..."Raise your hand."

M..."Here we go. I am a man and I say, Hi little girl what color panties do you have on today?"
Bell rings.
M... "Very good honey."

M... "Teacher tells the class that boys who want other boys to touch them or girls who want other girls to touch them are O.K."
Hand goes up...

M... "That is not true and is not O.K. Don't feel bad for getting it wrong it's a bit unclear to you. Now you know though right?"
C..."Right".

M..." A man touches you on your butt as you pass bye him on the street?"

clang, clang, clang.

M..." You got that one."

M..."There is a girl in the bathroom as you come in and she comes up to you and kisses you on the mouth".
Clang, clang, clang
M..."I think you are liking this game."
M..."The doctor has to check you over and when he finishes he pats your rear."
clang, clang. "I think".
M... "You are correct, even the doctor needs to know his limits."

M... "Lets stop for now but we will do this again. I owe you three goodies. You choose them out of the bag over here."
C..." that was fun Mom."

Dads should do this with boys if possible. Use your imagination as to games to play while doing this. Perhaps goodies are not a good prize but use your imagination there as well.